Think before you Speak

I am suffering from a lack of sleep now and hence am very cranky, so please pardon my somewhat irritated tone as I type this.

So ever since I cut my hair, I've been getting a few comments like, " Wow, what happenned to your hair sia",like an alien has taken over me or I've suddenly sprout tentacles on my head. Goodness me! Don't you all think before you speak or even try to process your thoughts logically and systematically before verbalizing them??? What the hell do you mean by what happenned? How should I answer you?

"Oh, I don't know. Woke up one morning and it was like this. Damn ugly right?"

Well, obviously I had it cut, at a hair salon, by a professional hairstylist with industrial-standard stainless steel scissors. How explicit do you what me to get man.

You may find it hard to accept this change and think what a pity it is that I made this life-changing decision. But please, can't you be at least polite enough to keep the shock/horror out of your tone. Do you find me saying things to you like, "Wow, what happenned to your face/thighs/waist?" cause it is bulging with fats. I don't, because I spare a thought for people's feelings. Period. Take a leaf out of your CME book and it stands for Civics Moral Education in case you've forgotten.

And I am seriously SICK of people (a MINORITY) telling me that these bangs don't suit my face or my old hair looks better, yada yada. Hey dearies, people already cut her beloved tresses off, how constructive can your comments get? They would be useful, IF i have a time-reverse machine or amazing products that can promise to make my bangs grow 5cm overnight.

What's more, 80% of the people around me has been telling me that I look GOOD in bangs. Even if I don't, I believe I look good enough with or without bangs. Anyway, my hair is still hediously long and smooth and lustrous, so thanks but no, mindless comments not appreciated.